We all need to think

BARILA BISHT
Teacher, Study Hall School

The principle of gender equality is enshrined in the Indian Constitution in its Preamble, Fundamental Rights, Fundamental Duties and Directive Principles. The Constitution not only grants equality to women, but also empowers the State to adopt measures of positive discrimination in favour of women. These days special focus is on empowering women and girls, because I believe they hold the key to long-lasting social change in communities. It is the moral, social and constitutional responsibility to ensure their progress by providing them with equal rights and opportunities. Today women with their smartness, intelligence and hard work have conquered the whole world. They have excelled in each and every profession. Women are considered to be more honest, meticulous, and efficient and hence more and more organisations prefer hiring women for better performance and results. They are much better in multi- tasking than their counterparts.

Inspite of the positive development of women in India, gender discrimination still persists. In their work places they are doing extremely well but at their homes they are never in command and some are even ill treated. Women have been empowered but have we been able to empower the men to handle and respect these empowered women? The answer largely is No. Here is some food for thought.

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A Question Unanswred

 

Dharm Pravartak
Student, Study Hall School

A Question Unanswred

I saw the light through the windows
I saw things change outside it
But Why Was I Not A Part of It?

I saw my brothers go to school
I saw them grow in all awe
But Why Was I Not A Part of It?

I saw men walking on the streets
I saw them go places beyond the horizon
But Why Was I Not A Part of It?

Men enjoyed their lives
Men had all the fun of their lives
But Why Was I Not A Part of It?

I saw the world change around me
I saw men change it too
But Why Was I Not A Part of It?

Am i dumb or am i weak
Am i foolish or Am i a freak
Why wasn’t I am part of The Decisions of My Life
Why was I just used and abused
Why, Tell Me Why?

Why Was I Not A Part of It?

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Living on the edge

Sachin Nitish
X-C, Study Hall School

Being a woman is a very challenging course and one has to have the guts to go through it but, why is it to be the Indian Woman who is suffering the most?

Let us start by asking a question to ourselves.

Are you ready to accept the truth and stand up against the mistakes? 

Of course not. Why you ask?

You’ll talk about gender discrimination today and start the life with the same mindset of being superior. The patriarchal society of India has brought up everyone that way. Women of India live a life on a string, it’s only a matter of time before they fall off or get pushed. It’s only a matter of time to realize these mistakes. The way you treat your sisters and mothers is how you should exactly treat a walking street passer. Passing snide comments and looks is not an example you set yourself. You may think your physically more stronger and have a superiority thinking going on but remember, You are pushing the women too far It doesn’t take too long before they push back.

How can government help the women?

Amending new laws and giving way too long speeches are not helping in any ways. Enforce the existing laws properly and pay the women some respect. Though the country is ran by many women, they are not really into helping the other women. Listen to the voices of public and try to understand them, Coming to a campaign just for sake of political attention won’t get you anywhere.

How can the citizens help the women?

The way society treats them is to be blamed. A good society would treat the men and women equally by means of everything. Get the women educated and make them understand the laws. The day a society knows a person is molested it should do all it can to make them feel home and not neglect them to a separate world. You see a women in trouble, stand up against them.

How can we change the current situation?

Let the women feel wanted and safe. Let the future generations be made equal and not depend on a patriarchal system. Don’t ever feel that having a women child is a burden.

The campaign’s purpose will thrive long enough to make the women feel wanted, safe, equal.

The day when a women feels safe to walk the streets alone and feels equally treated is the day when we get our true freedom.

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स्त्रियों का शोषण

राधिका मौर्या(उम्र 15 वर्ष)
कक्षा 8, कस्तूरबा गाँधी बालिका विद्यालय मडिहान मिर्जापुर

देश की राजधानी में एक बार फिर दरंदिगी की सभी सीमाए पार हो गयी है। बदमाशो  ने दिल्ल्ली की एक छात्रा के साथ क्रूरता की सभी हदे पार कर दी  और यह दिल्ली के लिए कोई  नयी बात नहीं है।दिल्ली जो की भारत कि  राजधानी है वहाँ  रात 9:30 बजे यह घटना घटी और पुलिस इस घटना को रोकने में अक्षम रही ।यह दिल्ली में आम बात है लेकिन इस बार महिला के पुरुष दोस्त के सामने आने पर यह मामला प्रकाश में आया है। बदमाशों ने युवती के साथ ज़बरदस्ती की और उसके पुरुष मित्र को बेरहमी से पीटने के बाद रस्ते  पर फेक दिया।युवती ने साहस का परिचय दिया लेकिन उसकी बदमाशो के सामने एक न चली। बदमाश यह  घ्रणित  कार्य चलती बस में करते रहे।चलती बस में तक़रीबन सवा घंटे तक बदमाश उसे पीटते रहे और ज़ख़्मी करते रहे और लोगो को कुछ पता नहीं चला।
सुझाव के तौर पर लोगो ने स्त्रियों को अधिक वस्त्र  पहनने की वकालत की लेकिन मै उन लोगो से पूछना चाहती हूँ कि अधिक वस्त्र पहनने से क्या उनकी  सुरक्षा मुकम्मल हो पायेगी? पूरे देश में इस घटना को लेकर कड़ा  आक्रोश था और  ज़नान्दोलन भी हुए लेकिन इतना समय बीत जाने के बावजूद दोषियों को कोई सजा नहीं हुयी।मेरा सुझाव है कि उन दोषियों को ऐसी सजा मिलनी चाहिए कि दुबरा कोई यह घृणित कार्य करने कि हिम्मत न कर सके। अब हमें यह कहना है , पूरे जोश और पूरी ताकत के संग आओ करें पुरषों से जंग।

 

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Unacknowledged

 

 

Rohina Dass
XI D

Unacknowledged

Unwanted
When X and X chose one another,
It made her a girl.
Blamed for this catastrophe was the mother,
And so the torment began to unfurl.

Unsafe
Her first trial was survival,
In the womb itself, if she could remain concealed
Right up till her arrival
And then, her true worth was revealed.

Unloved
Arguments were fought so that she wouldn’t be thrown.
An object she was to be, a lifeless barely breathing commodity
Raised in the shadows, trying to atone
For sins unknown to her, a tear in plea

Unequal
Her brother waved at her as he left for school
She wiped her small forehead while doing the dishes
Tender fingers, hands equally able to hold a pencil, her education is overruled
Home is where her mind shall be even if it is against her wishes.

Unacceptable
We are women and men of a modern age
The women’s rights movement began centuries ago,
Wars started and they ended. How many more do we wage?
Till we go crazy and so does the ratio?

We ought to understand, we ought to feel
Today it was her; tomorrow it’ll be me?
We have been scarred enough, lets try and heal
I demand it despite everything and so would she.

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was my being a girl a burden on earth?

 

 

 

 

 

 

Shatakshi swaroop

Class XII D, Study Hall

so calm so peace,
in the womb as i sleep.
90 days of my growth,
still to grow,still to grow.
i feel the love i feel it in
but everything soon,came to still.
the door of my room, was opened soon
and was brought to the world
that was my own too
But things did’nt went,
the way the should have been
as i was soon packed in a polythene
saying my birth was a sin
they threw me out in a dustbin
i felt the sharp teeth on my skin
and was torn into pieces bit by bit…
eaten away by carnivores
my existence in the world
was no more…
with pain and questions embeded in heart
my soul and  body go apart
i wander still around to be heard
“was my being a girl a burden on earth ?”

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बिटिया बनाम हाशिया

Suman Diwedi
Study Hall School
भारतीय इतिहास भले ही वीरांगनाओ की शौर्य गाथा से भरा हो। उसे देवी,शक्ति,दुर्गा,काली, कुछ भी कहा गया हो, परन्तु ये भी कटु सत्य है कि तमाम कोशिशो और सामाजिक विकासो के बावजूद भी उसे हाशिये पर ही रक्खा जाता है क्यों? क्यों जन्म लेने से पूर्व ही बच्चियों को मार देने की प्रथा बदस्तूर जारी है? एक खोज के अनुसार-‘ कन्या भ्रूड़ हत्या’भारत में आज भी चली आ रही है।उम्मीदों के विपरीत कन्या हत्या कम होने के बजाये कुछ दशको से बढ़ती ही जा रही है।

निजी बात पर आधारित एक शोध (45 मिलियंस दौतर्स मिसिंग) के अनुसार -जब लड़के का जन्म होता है तो औरते थाली बजाकर या हवा में आग उछाल कर उसके जन्म की घोषणा करती है। लेकिन यदि परिवार में बेटी पैदा हो जाये तो परिवार की बुजुर्ग औरत जाकर परिवार के पुरुषो से पूछती है कि -‘बारात रखनी है या लौटानी है’।अगर आदमी ये जवाब देता है कि ‘लौटानी है’। तो सारे पुरुष चले जाते है और तब जच्चा माँ को नन्ही बेटी के मुहँ में तम्बाकू रखने को कहा जाता है। जच्चा माँ के विरोध का मतलब है,उसकी जान को खतरा या उसे घर से निकाले जाने की धमकी।

सोचिये और विचार भी कीजिये की इसका जिम्मेदार कौन?मै तो कहती हूँ ये एक सोची समझी साजिश है जिसकी नीति के तहत बेटियों को हाशिये पर सरकाया जा रहा है।उनकी सत्ता को मिटाया जा रहा है।प्रश्न गंभीर है कि एक ऒर जहां देश में जातिगत,धार्मिक,सामुदिक,दंगों में कत्लेआम खुलेआम होता है वही दूसरी    ऒर शिक्षा विकास के बावजूद भी इसे गुप्त रूप से लोग कर रहे है, और शायद वे ये सोच रहे है कि परिवार को संतुलित करने का यही एक कारगर तरीका है-‘बेटा बचाओ -बेटी हटाओ’।अगर मै गलत नहीं हूँ तो आप ही बताइए की क्या ये सच नहीं कि कई साल पहले जब हम तकनीकि रूप से इतने विकसित नहीं थे। बच्चियों को तो हम तब भी मार देते थे। आज जब हम शिक्षित है तो दो कदम आगे है। हम अल्त्रासौन्द कराकर यह पहले ही जान लेते है कि गर्भस्थ शिशु क्या है? शिशु का लिंग पता चलते ही हम उसे रखने या गिराने का फैसला ले लेते है क्या ये न्याय संगत है? या भविष्य में होगा। मै पूछती हूँ कब मिटेगा ये हाशिया?

उत्तर भारत का एक प्रसिद्ध लोकगीत है-
प्रभुजी! मै तोरी विनती करूँ, पैयाँ पडूं बार-बार,
अगले जन्म मोहि बिटिया न दीजो, नरक दीजो डार ।
सुनने में यह भले ही मर्मस्पर्शी लगता हो परन्तु इतना तो  स्पष्ट कर देता है की बेटियां बोझ है-आर्थिक बोझ –
उनके रहन-सहन,खानपान,शिक्षा-दिशा,विवाह-दहेज़। एक पुरानी कहावत है कि -‘बेटियों को पालना ऐसा है जैसे पड़ोसियों के बागीचे में पानी देना’ कितना दुखद है ये कथन और शर्मशार कर देने वाला भी- की जो जननी है उसका जिम्मेदार कौन? पिता ? पति ?या ससुराल ? दुःख ? दहेज़ और अभिशप्त जीवन।

सोचिये अगर सामाजिक रीतिरिवाज एक माँ-बाप को यदि बेटी जन्म की खुशी नहीं देते तो हम क्या आशा रक्खे कि यही समाज आगे चलकर बिटिया को हाशिया नहीं समझेगा?
मै थी
तुम्हारे अन्दर
सांस और
जीवन बनकर
सुन भी
न पाई थी
अपनी धड़कन
कतरा-कतरा
कर दिया मेरा जीवन !!!

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Towards Egalitarianism

 

Kavita Upadhyay
Study Hall School

The concern in the eyes of my parents in the 70s when Sanjay and Geeta Chopra case shook the nation when two young school going siblings were attacked by Ranga Billa, raped and killed, we feel the same magnitude of concern for our daughters. Times have not changes the issue of sexual crime against women. The 16th December 2012, Nirbhaya case would not have been there if the governance of the country had shown consideration earlier. Rightly, Justice Verma reiterates that it is the failure of governance which is the root cause of crime against women. Millions in one voice cried for justice against the ever-increasing rape cases in India.

The voice finally shook few from their slumber and the outcome is in the form of Justice Verma Committee report. The report, though rules out death penalty but says life imprisonment must always mean imprisonment for the entire natural life of the convict. It recommends punishment for trafficking and instructs stalking should be viewed as a serious offence. The police has been asked to be more gender sensitive and to register cases of sexual assault without harassing the victim. Underlying the recommendation made by the Verma committee is a new charter of the rights for sexual offence victims. The degree to which India succeeds in becoming a liberal country and combat patriarchy and violence against females will be decided by a single factor and that is to what extent these legal rights are actually conferred on the women of India.

The report comes at a time when the situation has become gruesome, brutal and difficult to control. NCRB data suggests rape crime has gone up by 829% since 2001. What are we waiting for? 50% of the countries population is unsafe and on the verge of living under constant threat of being sexually harassed at any point of time and at any place. A constant upsurge in sexual violence cases against women have been recorded for years but ignored because of lack of political will and frequent involvement of authorities in such crimes.

The youth of the country took to the streets in a peaceful way asking for a good governance, law and order in the country to make life safe for females. Thanks to Justice Verma and his team to accept that, an attitude change is expected in the older generation and so for the governance to bring safety in the lives of girls. Of course, this is a mammoth task when the target groups involve insensitive brutal people like Ram Singh who perceive women as an object and nothing else. Strict implementation of laws is obviously a much needed tool to bring this change in the attitude. Inclusion of gender sensitivity program in school curriculum is urgently required at all levels of education.

As ordinary citizens, our role increases manifold to help each other understand the importance and advantage of an egalitarian society where both boys and girls survive happily. Empowering of girls does not mean disempowering boys. It is simple respect and giving a chance to live freely to the girls.

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A Student of Study Hall School

 

Laiba Fatima Rizvi
Class VII – D, Study Hall School

I am very glad to be a student of Study Hall because our school is fighting against women rights!!! After the dreadful Delhi gang rape case the whole of India has got scared. The 23 year old girl was battling for life but unfortunately she died. WE SHOULD GIVE EQUAL RIGHTS TO WOMEN.Technology has changed , everything has changed but the mindset of some people has not changed. Today also they think women are of no use.Still women are unsafe and unwanted. The six men who raped her should be hanged to death. We CAN stop these crimes only when people change their minds. Government should make strict laws against the rapist .Women are not for the pleasure of men or for their entertainment .Women and men are both equal .Today in our country women also work and take care of their family and house .Then why should we not respect them .We should respect women and be good citizens.
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A Fundamental Shift


 

Pinky Yadav
Class VIII
Prerna School
As a thriving country, India is taking huge steps towards becoming a world class- country but the safety of it’s residents especially women remains a concern. According to surveys. India ranks among the top five most “unsafe” places for women in the world. Is it the deep-rooted psyche of a male dominated society; the lack of education and morals or is it the socio-economic diversity or perhaps it is all of them. Where is the respect for women in society? Though we are in the 21st century. Women still are vulnerable to the tortures of men. It seems being born as a woman is a curse in this country. Though there are women leaders in top positions and women police officers, the condition of the ordinary women is grave, crimes against women refuse to reduce and the politicians keep fighting among themselves instead of taking some firm action so that woman feel safe in this country. “It’s not enough to have a law. The implementation needs to be resourced well enough for it to work.” The biggest hope for change lies with future generations. Let’s treat sons and daughters in the same home with equal love and fairness, teach brothers to respect and honour their sister and raise our sons to believe that women are equal to men in all respects. This is a fundamental shift that has the potential to save the next generation of women. This crucial responsibility has been entrusted to the parents of sons. Bring up your girl child with care. Make her self -reliant and give her education as self reliance is power. If you do this your girl-child will respect
you more and will care for you for the rest of your life.

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