Deconstructing ‘Womanhood’


Mrs. Shalini Sinha

Principal, Study Hall School

 

 

In Indian mythology ‘Manusmriti’ is considered the word of Brahma, and it is classified as the most authoritative statement on Dharma. I serve you some of Manu’s writings on women:

  • Na ast strinam………..” – 5/158. Women have no divine right to perform any religious ritual, nor make vows or observe a fast. Her only duty is to obey and please her husband and she will for that reason alone be exalted in heaven.
  • “Matra swastra ………..” – 2/215.Wise people should avoid sitting alone with one’s mother, daughter or sister. Since carnal desire is always strong, it can lead to temptation.
  • “Balye pitorvashay…….” – 5/151. Girls are supposed to be in the custody of their father when they are children, women must be under the custody of their husband when married and under the custody of her son as widows. In no circumstances is she allowed to assert herself independently.
  • “Asheela  kamvrto………” – 5/157. Men may be lacking virtue, be sexual perverts, immoral and devoid of any good qualities, and yet women must constantly worship and serve their husbands.

 

It has left me speechless to say the least! If these are the ‘golden’ words from our much acknowledged text that forms the base of our society, I am not surprised why our society has turned out to be what it is today.

For ages it has been believed that the different characteristics, roles and status accorded to women and men in society are determined by sex, that they are natural and therefore not changeable. Right when a child is born, the dance of gender begins, with the birth of a son being celebrated and that of a girl being a reason to sulk. There are jobs that are women-centric and some that are men-centric, in our religious texts there is in place the way a widow should lead her life, but no such laws for widowers… India is replete with discrimination of the sort.

If anything has to be achieved in order to bring sanity in our society, we need to strike hard at the root of the structure of our society. The way to do it, which will lead to sustained result, is to include in schools and college curriculum components that will teach the children to think beyond their body.

The government needs to do more in order to make women economically independent. For instance today in India a single woman does not have a good chance of getting a loan. Once the Indian woman is economically empowered she will eventually develop the courage to speak up, demand her rights and fight for her rightful place in society i.e. standing tall along with her Man counterpart.

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Promoting Gender Equality through Education in India


Rebecca Winthrop
Director, Center for Universal Education, The Brookings Institute

Protests continue in India, weeks after the horrific gang-rape of a 23-year old university student on December 16th and her subsequent death two weeks later – and rightly so, the incident itself was beyond the pale. A young couple in Delhi boarded a private bus after seeing a movie and instead of discussing character development and plot turns on the way home, the bus doors locked and they were subject to brutal attacks by the other passengers and driver as the bus drove around the city for over two hours. Witnesses driving by did nothing and the victims were eventually dumped out of the bus under an underpass.

But the awful details of this crime are not the main reason for the protests. Instead it is the deep and pervasive gender inequality in India of which this heinous act is a symbol. Girls and women are attacked every day and Indians across the country, particularly young people, are sick of it. Enough is enough they say. There are real reasons why half of all the girls in India don’t want to be girls, and it’s time to change.

If there is any silver lining to this tragedy, it is that the issue of gender equality is on everyone’s lips. Urvashi Sahni, an alumna of our girl’s education Global Scholars Program, is tracking this issue from India and writes that for one of the first times the debate on gender equality is “engaging voices from all sectors of society including students, civil society, academia, political parties, the police, the judiciary and the government.” Now the question remains: what will India do to improve the status of girls and women?

Much of the public discussion focuses on short and long-term solutions such as reforming the law enforcement systems, updating the legal code, supporting the women’s movement, developing new systems of accountability and, of course, having “greater dialogue about India’s patriarchal norms.” All of these things are important but it is the last that is perhaps the most difficult for policymakers and bureaucrats to tackle. Even if it is the most difficult, upending gender norms is perhaps the most fundamental thing needed for long-term sustainable change. Without transforming, in the deepest sense, how girls and women are valued in India, important interventions around such things as legal reforms and police training will end up in the problematic category of “necessary but not sufficient” for developing gender equality in society.

If done right, education can play an important role in redefining gender norms in India. Around the world, there have been numerous excellent examples of education changing people’s way of viewing the world and leading to new forms of behavior, ways of relating with others and ultimately social norms. Indeed, there have been decades of academic research on this topic, so much so that entire subfields of education theory and practice have developed (see for example Jack Mezirow and the field of transformative learning and Paulo Freire and the field of critical pedagogy).

India itself has good examples of education changing social norms towards gender equality. An interesting case of girls’ education programs run in the province of Uttar Pradesh demonstrates that schooling, if done right, can help change gender norms, even in the most marginalized societies. Founded by Urvashi Sahni, the Study Hall Foundation has demonstrated that at the same or lower cost per student as the government schools, their schools can educate girls in a way that enables them to both excel academically, but more importantly emerge as empowered young women. In one of their schools, Prerna, girls outperform their peers both within the province and across India. Ninety percent of Prerna girls complete their education to year 10, compared to below 30 percent nationally, and they do so while outperforming in virtually all subjects (in math and science the Prerna girls perform about 20 percentage points higher on exams than the national average). But most importantly, these girls are changing the gender norms in their communities. They are beginning to fight back when they or their peers are planned to be married off at too early an age. Through street protests and cajoling discussions, they have convinced their parents to keep them in school instead. They initiate community-wide discussions on violence against women. They apply for higher education scholarships and convince their families to let them go once they receive them (an incredibly 88 percent of the girls go on to higher education).

The success of this program is not because the students come from well-to-do families, they don’t (the average family income of students is $108 and 60 percent of their mothers and 40 percent of their fathers have never been to school). It is also not because teachers have higher qualifications or are better paid than government teachers. Rather, according to Mrs. Sahni, it’s because every day the girls’ talk about their worth, value and the issues they face around gender equality. “Gender equality needs to be taught, like math, science, and any other subject” says Sahni, who describes how in Prerna gender equality classes are regularly taught alongside a government curriculum. Then, she is quick to point out, teachers need to be encouraged and supported to fulfill their role as social change agents.

Now this is an idea that the Indian government would do well to listen to. It very well may be a center piece for transforming India’s “patriarchal norms”.

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Critical Dialogues and Empowering Education in the Wake of the Rape Tragedy in India

 

Dr. Urvashi Sahni
Founder, Study Hall Educational Foundation

The unspeakable horror of the brutal gang rape and murder of a 23-year-old girl in the capital of the world’s largest democracy, India, on December 16th has brought to the forefront the cruel, fatal, highly discriminatory gender norms prevalent in a country that now claims to be one of the worlds rising economic stars. A window has opened for responses that challenge these gender norms through critical dialogues and empowering education.

There is probably no woman in the country regardless of caste, class, religion or region who has not been the target of sexual harassment in some form or other at home, in the work place or on the street. India has one of the lowest sex ratios in the world, one of the highest rates of incestuous sex abuse,  and the worst gender differential of children aged between 1 to 5-years-old such that girls are 75 percent more likely to die than boys. Approximately 1 million girls arekilled in the womb before they are born, 25,000 die due to dowry related deaths and the gory list goes on and on. We are not a nation that values our daughters, or one that knows how to keep them safe.  They are neither safe in the before birth, or at home or in the streets.  And we do nothing about it! The nationwide protests are protesting just this. They are protesting against an apathetic administration, against sexist mindsets of the police, the judiciary and the legislature. They are demanding more just laws, speedier redressal in courts of law and conviction of criminals.  What is noteworthy is the large number of students, men and women who are on the streets, braving lathi charges (administered by stick) and tear gas to make their voice heard. It has now been over 20 days and the protests continue. This continuous, nationwide, mass protest in light of the gang rape- on the scale of the Tahrir square uprising – is not only unexpected, especially in a country like India, it is unprecedented and historic.

While I can only hang my head in shame at this awful crime, I will admit to a sense of exhilaration at the huge response it has generated among the nation’s youth, raising many gender related issues, leading to discussions and debates spanning both the length and I am an educator and the head of a school in Lucknow, the capital of Uttar Pradesh. Last night I went to light a candle in a city park.  Our school is closed for the winter, but many of our students were at the park lighting candles and engaging in critical dialogues.

The media is also making sure the issues do not disappear from the spotlight as is often the case. It is engaging voices from all sectors of society including students, civil society, academia, political parties, the police, the judiciary and the government.  Everywhere people are discussing gender discrimination, gender norms, and the sad status of women and girls in India. Nirbhaya’s (the pseudonym given to the deceased rape victim) brutal rape and murder should not pass in vain.  We hope that this is the turning point.  Everyone is being forced to sit up and take notice of the millions of girls who are being attacked, raped, killed every day all over the country.

Along with the strong measures that the government should take to ensure the safety of our women, as a long term measure we should be working at educating our young people towards more equitable gendered perceptions.  Everyone is clamoring for a change of gendered mindsets and I add my voice to the uproar – we should include gender studies in the post-primary curricula of all schools for both boys and girls. This is one way of ensuring that future generations of men will grow up respecting women and their right to bodily and sexual integrity. If it is important to give our children an understanding of math and science, it is equally important for them to understand equality of gender. Educators have an important role to play in creating a safer, more just world for girls and women.

Also featured on : Global Campaign for EDUCATION, United States Chapter  
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16 Days of Activism on Women Thrive

India is one of the deadliest places for girls.  In India, we do not value our girls. We kill off approximately 1 million girls before they are born each year. Those that make it into the world, have 75% less chances of surviving their first 5 years than boys the same age.  The worst gender differential in child mortality in the world! Then we get rid of them as soon as we can by marrying them off. One third of the worlds child brides come from India.  We all know that girls who get married early are more vulnerabe to domestic violence and maternal mortality. We should stop dignifying child marriage by calling it – “marriage” and call it what it is – Girl slavery! 25000 girls die in dowry related deaths each year. India has one of the highest rates of domestic violence – 40% married women in India are beaten and 56% justify it. Our gender norms are fatal in their discrimination against girls!  If we hope to achieve our goal of gender equality, we need to do some serious thinking about our gender norms and practices. Our school Prerna, which serves girls (age 3 to 18 yrs), from very poor slums in the state of Uttar Pradesh in India has found a way of dealing with gender norms.  We make gender equality a central educational goal, put gender equality at the center of our program and use a critical feminist pedagogy to help our students recognise themselves as equal persons worthy of respect. The students are empowered and learn to resist unfair practices at home. We train our teachers to become mentors to their students and advocates of girls rights. The school engages very closely with the community ,advocating for girls rights. It publicises laws against early marriage and domestic violence, intervenes with the help of community based organisations like Child Protection services and women’s rights organisations, in cases of child marriage and domestic violence. Prerna has incorporated the study of gender power relations in thier official academic curriculum. We believe that gender studies should become a part of the official post primary curriculum for both boys and girls! Gender norms have lethal consequences in India and we should be educating our students early to develop an equitable perception of gender relations.
Our girls have been empowered by their education to not only resist violence in their own lives but have formed a group called Veerangana (meaning ‘Woman of courage’ in Hindi) to engage in community work. They ran a campaign against domestic violence in their own community, conducting discussions in homes, going house to house collecting signatures to a pledge against domestic violence, scripting and performing a street play, publicising the law and taking out a procession with placards and slogans against gender based violence. A short 3 minute film, also made by the girls, can be found on YouTube – Veerangna (from Personal Activism to Social Activism).

Educators have a great responsibility in shaping minds and attitudes. We should not lose these attitudes. While helping students understand the world around them mathematically and scientifically is important,
it is equally if not more important to help them understand the world from the lens of equality.  They must learn to critically examine and reflect upon social structures and unfair gender relations constructed by them.  Why should schools not be the place where they learn to do this? Our school has done this for 8 years now and our girls have learnt to advocate for themselves and for others in their community.

Dr. Urvashi Sahni

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Gordon Brown meets Dr.Sahni

Gordon Brown, former Prime Minister of UK, and UN special envoy for education expressed a keen interest in our foundation’s initiatives to prevent child marriage among young girls in Lucknow, Uttar Pradesh.

Dr. Urvashi Sahni met Mr. Brown at Brookings, Washington D.C on 5th December 2012.

Prerna Girls win OneMinutesJr Awards, Amsterdam

There were three categories and the winners of the best video of each category was presented a Tommy award and an HDFlipCam! A youth jury also selected “best of the best” video, and winner also received a Tommy award and HDFlipCam. All nominees have also won a place in a OneMinutes/IDFA Masterclass in Amsterdam. The awards ceremony took place on 24 November 2012 in Amsterdam, The Netherlands. Regretfully Prerna Girls could not make it to the award ceremony but they did receive 2 awards.

 

 


The Wall

Kushboo tied for the youth jury award.
[watch on youtube]

 

 


Change 

Ms. Priya Dubey won the award for the (Self)Portrait category.
[watch on youtube]

 

Other nominee from Prerna girls school for One minute of Freedom category was Ms. Neeshu Singh for her movie Its a baby girl [watch]

Clinton Global Initiative Annual Meeting 2012

Dr. Urvashi Sahni speaks at 2012 Clinton Global Initiative Annual Meeting

When looking to reduce global poverty and improve long-term economic outcomes, there are very few investments better than the investment in girls’ education. Improving access to quality education provides a strong foundation for personal development and empowerment, which leads to a plethora of benefits, including improvements in health and increased national economic growth. Building upon earlier discussions on this topic, this session will discuss past progress, examine how to build productive partnerships, and facilitate cross-sectoral collaborations in order to ensure that efforts in this space result in a successful and healthy transition to an empowered and productive adulthood for all girls.

Breakout session was entitled “Empowering Girls Through Education”, Nobel Peace laureate, Leymah Gbowee (Founder and President of Gbowee Peace Foundation Africa) advocated for making schools safer for girls. Ms. Gbowee also noted the problem of retention rates for girls in school, and stated that educational budgeting is often the smallest sector of government funding in many countries. During this session, Abhijit Banerjee, co-founder of MIT’s Abdul Latif Jameel Poverty Action Lab (J-PAL), also stressed the need to get families to believe that school is useful, as expectations are often low and people in developing nations “don’t always believe that schools can deliver.” He also stressed the importance of establishing women as role models for children and their families, and referenced a study in India where a local government position was reserved for a woman, and how a rise in school attendance of local girls was seen as a result.

Breakout Session: Empowering Girls Through Education

Breakout Session: Empowering Girls Through Education

Urvashi Sahni, Founder, President and CEO of Studyhall Educational Foundation in Lucknow, India, spoke about her efforts to make students “agents” of the educational agenda, and spoke about how her school is putting gender equality into educational programming. She expressed the need to look at learning differently, “because when you start looking at things differently, people start treating you differently, and that’s how the world changes.”

Key issues related to education, malnutrition, early childhood healthcare and the effects of stunted growth, a primary manifestation of malnutrition in early childhood. A reported 19,000 child

Venue : Empire West, Second Floor, Sheraton New York Hotel
Date of Discussion: Monday, 24th September 2012

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2012 Independence Day Celebration

Senior school Study Hall affirmed their patriotism on the 15th of august with a lively celebration of the  66th Independence day in true spirit, with great zeal and enthusiasm.  It began with the unfurling of the tricolour by  the principal  Mrs.Shalini Sinha. There after the entire school took pride in singing the  national anthem followed by the pledge.

Study Hall in colors of independence on 15th August 2012; Photography by : Ekisha Narain

Soon after the program began the head boy AmbeshTiwari addressed the school with his inspirational words. Rabindranath Tagore’s beautiful poem “where the mind is without fear” was then recited by class 7-A students.  The Inter- House Declamation Competition was also held wherein the participants Adeel Khan (Cypress house) ,RanaitaShahani ( Fire-Flame house) , Sunaina Baijal (Jacaranda house) and SaumyaTandon (Silver-oak house) had all chosen excellent speeches by eminent people  dealing with very relevant contemporary issues which reminded and re-established the goals for the society and country in the minds of all those present. They all spoke so eloquently that the judges had a hard time in deciding the winner. Ultimately Saumya and Adeel were adjudged first, Sunaina second and Ranaita stood third.

Photography by : Jyotika Mishra XI-D (batch of 2012)

A vibrant dance was performed to a medley of songs adding to the cheer of the occasion with a spectacular, spellbinding formation in the end. An English song with props added to the patriotic fervour pervading all around. The girls from the Prerna School also joined in the celebrations spiritedly by singing a harmonious patriotic song. The entire school  then sang a melodious  number ‘azaadi ka din aaya’  that represented a united bond, of being the citizens of a great country, which began its independent journey on this very day 66 years ago. The school principal spoke on the occasion exhorting students to be the change that they envisaged for the country.

To add to the feeling of glory and  pride the Student Council was formally introduced to the school in an Investiture ceremony. The prefects were given their badges signifying the great power and responsibility delegated  to them, reposing full faith in them, with the  assurance that they would uphold the school’s name while taking it to new heights.Then the  school head girl Avantika Atul proposed the vote of thanks.The ceremony concluded with the distribution of delicious chocolate cookies to each student.

By Rohina Das XI-D (batch of 2012)

Inter House Drama Competition

Study Hall presents the largely awaited Inter House Drama Competition on 7th , 8th and 9th of August 2012, at the Paryatan Bhawan, Prekshagraha, Gomti Nagar, Lucknow.

Social Issues will be highlighted through self – scripted plays.

The Plays are as follows :

1. Cypress House – ‘Ek Naya Savera ‘ on caste system.

2. Fire Flame House – ‘Aaj Ka Abhimanyu’ on corruption

3. Jacaranda House – ‘Doosra Paksh’ on gender

4. Silver Oak House – ‘Nav Vihar’ on poverty

Yuva Manch 2012 : Drama Festival

A two day Drama Festival was held under the aegis of Yuva Manch, the endearing platform for theatre enthusiasts in Lucknow. Envisioned six years ago by Dr. Urvashi Sahni, the founder of Study Hall Educational Foundation. Thus, July 20th & 21st were very special evenings at the Paryatan Bhavan auditorium. On the first day Vidyasthali, Kanar which is a part of the Study Hall Educational Foundation, staged their Sanskrit play which was adapted from a Gujrati play by the famous playwright Geeju Bhai. The first day of this festival also featured two Hindi Dance Dramas. These were ‘Meera’ by the girls of Study Hall Foundation’s Prerna School and “Kabira Khada Bazar Mein’ by the present & past pupils of Study Hall. As one of its actor’s Aiman stated after the English Play, ‘A Visitor from Forest Hills’ that the challenge was “acting in a situation which seemed like a lively comedy but which bore the underlying strain of a near tragedy”, says it all.
Thus congratulations to the Study Hall family for laying stronger foundations and building greater milestones in this ‘universe of care’. Let’s now look out for Yuva Manch 2013!