{"id":806,"date":"2013-01-30T16:42:33","date_gmt":"2013-01-30T11:12:33","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.studyhallfoundation.org\/studyhall-blogs\/?p=806"},"modified":"2013-02-19T16:01:49","modified_gmt":"2013-02-19T10:31:49","slug":"servitude-of-a-chagrined-dove","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.studyhallfoundation.org\/studyhall-blogs\/?p=806","title":{"rendered":"Servitude of a Chagrined Dove"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft size-full wp-image-808\" src=\"http:\/\/www.studyhallfoundation.org\/studyhall-blogs\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/01\/ekisha.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"75\" height=\"72\" \/><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong>Ekisha Narain<br \/>\n<\/strong>XI-D, Study Hall School<\/p>\n<div>Near the city of Varanasi there is an Iron casting factory surrounded by small settlements of the workers. I dedicate this song to Meenaksi. A 48 year old woman who lives there and was being raped by her own husband almost every night. She thought it wasn&#8217;t considered as rape because he was her husband. Imagine. She tolerated this for more than 30 years! Until one day when her husband, drunk, invited his friends over for a night.\u00a0After suffering for more than 5 hours when the sun peeked through the window as she laid alone. It dawned upon her. How wrong it was and how many other women might be going through all this in that area alone. She decided to stand up! She couldn&#8217;t take it anymore!<br \/>\nShe talked to all the women of the area about the incident and they \u00a0came together and formed a group against this injustice. At first they were\u00a0criticized. Their husbands, fathers and brothers laughed at them and beat them for standing against their authority !\u00a0But they didn&#8217;t know the power of united women.<\/div>\n<div>It&#8217;s been almost a year and they have acted against 14 men who were fired and\u00a0\u00a0<em>sentenced<\/em>\u00a0to about\u00a0<em>two years<\/em>\u00a0in prison. Now that group has over 30-40 women and 10-15 men which they are trying to expand as much as possible.<\/div>\n<hr \/>\n<div id=\"attachment_807\" style=\"width: 358px\" class=\"wp-caption alignleft\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-807\" class=\" wp-image-807   \" src=\"http:\/\/www.studyhallfoundation.org\/studyhall-blogs\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/01\/Meenaksi.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"348\" height=\"648\" \/><p id=\"caption-attachment-807\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Meenaksi. A 48 year old woman who lives there and was being raped by her own husband almost every night.<\/p><\/div>\n<p><strong>Exhausted<\/strong><\/p>\n<div>\n<div>\n<div>\n<div>\n<div>I continue my journey,<\/div>\n<div>as the outnumbered,<\/div>\n<div>the weakling.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div>\n<div>No other choice<\/div>\n<div>but to live with it.<\/div>\n<div>Unconscious.<\/div>\n<div>Not my memory.<\/div>\n<div>I&#8217;m not young,<\/div>\n<div>nor fair.<\/div>\n<div>But does it matter?<\/div>\n<div>Not to them.<\/div>\n<div>To him.<\/div>\n<div>I blame God,<\/div>\n<div>I know not why.<\/div>\n<div>Eyes closed<\/div>\n<div>I&#8217;m ready to die<\/div>\n<div>Silence,<\/div>\n<div>Pain,<\/div>\n<div>Anger,<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div>\n<div>Powerless I lie.<\/div>\n<div>Numb.<\/div>\n<div>Guilty.<\/div>\n<div>Is it my fault?<\/div>\n<div>Yes.<\/div>\n<div>For\u00a0reticent i stay<\/div>\n<div>hiding the embarrassment.<\/div>\n<div>Fearing the forcible.<\/div>\n<div>Every night.<\/div>\n<div>Every night&#8230;.<\/div>\n<div>But not today!<\/div>\n<div>Today i fly<\/div>\n<div>I&#8217;ve had enough<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div>You will not haunt us<\/div>\n<div>Together we stand<\/div>\n<div>against your type<\/div>\n<div>You shall fear us!<\/div>\n<div>\n<div>\n<div>Our rage now hype!<\/div>\n<div>Standing tall<\/div>\n<div>We&#8217;ll fight!<\/div>\n<div>We&#8217;ll fight!<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div><a href=\"http:\/\/studyhallfoundation.org\/campaign\/\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft  wp-image-604\" style=\"border: 0px\" src=\"http:\/\/www.studyhallfoundation.org\/studyhall-blogs\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/01\/BLOG_FOOTER.jpg\" alt=\"Back to campaign\" width=\"659\" height=\"110\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.studyhallfoundation.org\/studyhall-blogs\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/01\/BLOG_FOOTER.jpg 659w, https:\/\/www.studyhallfoundation.org\/studyhall-blogs\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/01\/BLOG_FOOTER-300x50.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.studyhallfoundation.org\/studyhall-blogs\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/01\/BLOG_FOOTER-500x83.jpg 500w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 659px) 100vw, 659px\" \/><\/a><\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&nbsp; Ekisha Narain XI-D, Study Hall School Near the city of Varanasi there is an Iron casting factory surrounded by small settlements of the workers. 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