{"id":665,"date":"2013-01-27T19:00:44","date_gmt":"2013-01-27T13:30:44","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.studyhallfoundation.org\/studyhall-blogs\/?p=665"},"modified":"2013-02-19T15:55:37","modified_gmt":"2013-02-19T10:25:37","slug":"665","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.studyhallfoundation.org\/studyhall-blogs\/?p=665","title":{"rendered":"Identifying the wrong touch"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft  wp-image-666\" style=\"border: 0px\" src=\"http:\/\/www.studyhallfoundation.org\/studyhall-blogs\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/01\/surbhi.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"84\" height=\"109\" \/><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong>Surabhi Kapoor<br \/>\n<\/strong>Principal, Dosti School<\/p>\n<p>Groping, pinching and fondling in public places is something most women have experienced. However, most of these cases go unreported \u2013 or simply ignored. The reason for ignoring such instances of sexual harassment is simple \u2013 an absolute nonexistence of a support system that will hear and take action against perpetrators \u2013 it comes down to the victim\u2019s word against the accused. So, in the light of this how can such instances of sexual abuse and violence against women in India be stopped?<br \/>\nWomen with special needs are sadly unaware of such advances, mostly taking it as routine \u2013 until it is too late. Girls, both normal and with special needs, need to be taught to identify the \u201cwrong touch\u201d both at home and in public places such as on trains, buses, railway stations, market places and in school. Educating them to deal with such instances as and when they occur may not completely do away with this evil, but it will definitely act as a deterrent. However, these women need a support system that includes social services, efficient policing, and a speedy judicial system that will hear such cases and hand down judgments in the shortest time possible. After all, justice delayed is justice denied!<br \/>\nWhen perpetrators of crimes against women are punished appropriately and in time, others will be deterred and crimes against women will reduce considerably.<br \/>\nViolence against the girl child and women with disabilities is not just about any kind of physical violence; violence includes negligence, denying them traditional roles such as marriage and motherhood, and of course emotional, mental and physical abuse.<br \/>\nIn fact, such is the state of affairs in India that discrimination against the girl child begins even before birth \u2013 and at this stage the parents are not even aware of the physical development of the fetus, imagine their reaction if they knew the fetus were special!<br \/>\nGirls and women with disabilities should especially be taught to recognize \u201cthe wrong touch. They should be taught to react and report such incidents irrespective of the man (or woman) concerned. Sexual advancements towards women mostly involve known men. Sadly, in many cases it involves the men in the family, such as the fathers of the girls, brothers, uncles and even close family friends \u2013 the nature of their relationship with the victim does not absolve them of their crime, and Indian women should understand this without any doubt.<br \/>\nMothers, sisters, aunts and colleagues, both at work and in school, should be made aware of the need to protect each other by vocalizing any incident of physical and mental abuse against women \u2013 especially those with special needs. They should be made aware of the support systems in place to deal with such cases and most of all, they should be made aware that they have a special place in an educated society that has no right to discriminate against women.<br \/>\nIt is time to speak out, educate and protect each other against a growing menace that stems from within our sex \u2013 mothers unable to bring up their sons to respect womankind. A revolution has to begin with women because only women can end atrocities against themselves \u2013 right minded men can only support us.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/studyhallfoundation.org\/campaign\/\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft  wp-image-604\" style=\"border: 0px\" src=\"http:\/\/www.studyhallfoundation.org\/studyhall-blogs\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/01\/BLOG_FOOTER.jpg\" alt=\"Back to campaign\" width=\"659\" height=\"110\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.studyhallfoundation.org\/studyhall-blogs\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/01\/BLOG_FOOTER.jpg 659w, https:\/\/www.studyhallfoundation.org\/studyhall-blogs\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/01\/BLOG_FOOTER-300x50.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.studyhallfoundation.org\/studyhall-blogs\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/01\/BLOG_FOOTER-500x83.jpg 500w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 659px) 100vw, 659px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&nbsp; Surabhi Kapoor Principal, Dosti School Groping, pinching and fondling in public places is something most women have experienced. However, most of these cases go unreported \u2013 or simply ignored. 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